Here i go again

Well this is where I am in life. I have a cool little bf. I call him that because he's the youngest person I've ever dated. I really care about him but at the same time I'm not taking our relationship as seriously as I usually would. My attraction to him first showed itself after being turned on by his hair(he 'had' dreads) but he decided to cut them off on a whim while we were apart. How stupid. To me its like a lion cutting his mane and with it goes a lot of his power. he went from this to this.